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They don't respect your boundaries -

Respecting personal boundaries is crucial. If your family disregards what you consider acceptable or not, it may indicate a negative sign. It is important to ensure your personal boundaries are always honored.

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They are abusive -

Abusive behavior comes in various forms, and it is unacceptable both within and outside of a family. No one, not even family members, has the right to physically or emotionally harm you.

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They put their needs first -

If you feel that your needs are not being met and that things often seem unbalanced, it could indicate that a family member prioritizes themselves and disregards your needs without much concern or consideration.

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They don't show any interest in your personal life -

Asking about someone's life is a sign of interest, but if even a basic "How are you?" is absent, that's cause for concern.

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They neglect you -

This is a common occurrence, often unintentional, but it can deeply hurt a child and the emotional impact may not be fully understood until adulthood.

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Your wants and needs don't really exist for them -

If your needs and desires were disregarded, particularly during childhood, it can greatly influence your adult life. In case this occurred in your history, there may be a need to embark on a journey of healing.

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Lack of calls or messages -

If your family rarely contacts you, it could indicate that your relationship isn't very close, or it might suggest that they don't have genuine concern for your well-being.

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You are excluded from family events -

If you frequently find yourself excluded from family events, such as holidays and birthdays, it suggests that these individuals have little desire to spend time with you.

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They're not present in your important moments -

If your family members consistently fail to attend your birthday parties, graduations, and other important events, it is a sign indicating their lack of support.

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They are very critical of you -

If you constantly receive criticism, regardless of your actions, the person responsible is unworthy of your time and love.

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They don't support you -

You have goals and aspirations, and experience victories and setbacks like anyone else. The least desirable thing is having family members who do not provide encouragement. Undoubtedly, you don't require additional individuals discouraging you in your journey.

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They try to control you -

There are some parents who tend to exert a great deal of control. While a certain level of control is reasonable during certain stages of life, it becomes toxic when parents continue to dominate every aspect of their adult child's life.

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You are constantly blamed -

If your family constantly engages in the blame game, consider it a warning sign. Being accountable for one's actions is a characteristic of emotionally mature individuals, whereas blaming others is not.

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They only contact you when they require something from you -

This situation may sound familiar to many. We all have that one family member who only reaches out when they require something. These individuals are often self-centered and do not contribute significantly to our lives.

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They make fun of you...for fun -

Embarrassing someone for amusement during a family gathering happens more frequently than what we imagine. Nonetheless, it constitutes abuse and should not be permitted under any circumstances.

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They manipulate you -

Gaslighting is a type of psychological manipulation that aims to make you question your own sanity, ultimately for someone's benefit. Detecting it can be challenging, but when a family member attempts to convince you of your own madness, it's crucial to be observant of their underlying intentions.

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Your feelings are invalidated -

If your family lacks empathy towards your personal challenges, it may be best to reconsider maintaining that relationship. If someone downplays your emotions and instructs you to quickly overcome them, they are not validating your feelings.

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They are always too busy for you -

If someone never has time for you, it likely means they don't want to make room for you in their life. Just like when you want something and prioritize it, people behave the same way.

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They compete against you -

We're not discussing typical sibling competition, but rather genuine rivalry. While this can occur among siblings, it is also prevalent between parents and children.

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The love language spoken is different -

Each person has a unique love language, and it's important for your immediate family to understand and communicate yours effectively.

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They don't accept who you are -

If your family does not accept your true self or allow you to be authentic, you will never feel comfortable in their presence. Each person is distinct, and it is important to have the freedom to express your individuality within your family.

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Your viewpoint is not significant -

If your family tends to ignore you and doesn't appreciate your views, you'll likely refrain from expressing yourself. This habit is unhealthy and signifies an unhealthy family relationship.

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You're always wrong -

If they do listen to you but constantly disagree with your opinion, sometimes merely for the sake of disagreement, that is equally detrimental.

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They give you false apologies -

Apologizing insincerely not only insults, but also ensures damaged family relations. Be vigilant for such apologies to avoid perpetuating broken bonds within the family.

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They fail to keep promises -

Trust can be permanently damaged when someone, including a family member, fails to fulfill their promise. It is reasonable to expect others to uphold their commitments.

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They sabotage you -

Some individuals may act out of envy or jealousy, or simply harbor dislike towards you. Family should ideally provide support and not require constant vigilance.

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They make you feel guilty for your needs -

The influence of making you feel abnormal in your desires and yourself is significant, impacting not only your family but also your connections with others outside of it.

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They make fun of you for talking about your needs -

If you can effectively communicate your needs in a healthy manner, yet they mock you, it serves to invalidate your needs and disregard the importance of your emotions. It is evident that they are not receptive to engaging in constructive communication.

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Never good enough -

Family serves as a nurturing foundation for personal growth and assurance. It should be a secure haven where love and support prevail. However, when one's family diminishes their worth, it cripples self-worth and perpetuates a sense of inadequacy that lingers throughout life.

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They do not support your decisions -

Disagreeing with your life choices differs from not backing them. Your family doesn't have to approve of your actions, but they should be capable of supporting you regardless of the decisions you make for your own well-being.

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Feeling unloved -

The main point is that feeling loved by your family is crucial. If this is not the case, there may be an issue. Tackling the problem early on can prevent costly therapy bills in the future.

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