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It's okay to say no -

Base your decisions on your financial capabilities. It's okay to check "no" on the RSVP card if you simply can't afford to attend. Similarly, it's okay to turn down related events like engagement parties and bridal showers.

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Plan in advance -

Planning well in advance helps you make more rational decisions and come up with ways to save money. It also helps you budget for the smaller things that add up, like taxis, outfit accessories, and childcare.

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Book early -

Booking early ensures a spot at the wedding venue accommodation. This means you can save money on transportation and accommodations located further from the event.

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Use price comparison websites -

If you'll be attending a destination wedding, use price comparison sites to find the least expensive flight options.

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Use credit card points -

Make use of your credit card points and miles, particularly if you have a destination wedding to attend.

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Create a sinking fund -

Set up a sinking fund (a savings account that is paid in regularly to save money over time for a specific expense) as early as possible and set aside some money each month to cover any necessary costs.

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Pack snacks -

If you'll be traveling for a wedding, pack your own snacks for the journey and save some money.

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Prioritize -

Scale back on your spending and prioritize the events or expenses that are within your budget.

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Suggest hosting -

If you're part of the bridal party, suggest hosting the bachelor or bachelorette party at your home to cut costs.

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Regift -

You may wish to regift an item you've never used to the newlyweds. Ensure it is a wedding-appropriate item and that it isn't personalized with your name or initials.

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Check the sales -

Check online or in-store sales to find outfits or wedding gifts at a discounted price.

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Neutral shoes -

Buying a new set of shoes for each outfit can become expensive, so consider purchasing a good quality, neutral pair that can be worn time and time again with any outfit.

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Consider staying elsewhere -

While staying at the wedding venue might be the easier option, it might not be the cheapest. Check out nearby accommodation options and figure out which is better for your wallet.

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Shop secondhand -

Check out local thrift stores or secondhand apps to find a wedding outfit for a fraction of the price of buying new.

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Multi-day weddings -

Multi-day weddings can be significantly expensive for guests. If your budget can't stretch for more than one day, don't feel obliged to stay longer.

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Bachelor and bachelorette parties -

Bachelor and bachelorette parties can triple your costs as a guest. Never feel obligated to go over budget to please a friend or family member; only attend the events you can afford.

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Call in favors -

Babysitters and transportation can be expensive, so kindly ask friends or family with enough notice if they can give you a ride to or from the wedding or look after your children.

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Use your talents -

If you're talented at crafting, why not make the decor, create the guest book, or make a personalized gift for the couple? This will save you money, plus have sentimental meaning for the newlyweds.

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Gift registry -

Couples will usually provide a gift registry with items at different price points. Check it out early and choose something that is within your price range.

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Gift pool -

Save some money by grouping together with your friends to buy the happy couple an item off the registry.

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Avoid buying drinks for other people -

Avoid buying drinks for other people at the wedding reception, as this will quickly take you over budget. Try leaving your credit or debit card in the hotel room and using cash only.

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Set a budget -

It's easy to get swept up in the festivities and feel generous at the bar, but if you're keen to save money, it's best to set a budget and stick to it.

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Do your own hair and makeup -

While having your hair and makeup done by a professional is such a treat, if you're on a budget it's best to do your own look. Practice in advance, and check online for tutorials if you're unsure.

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Rent or borrow an outfit -

Buying a new outfit for a wedding can be pricey, so why not rent something for a fraction of the cost? You could also ask friends if they have an item or accessories you could borrow.

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Hitch a ride -

If a friend or acquaintance is driving, ask if you can hitch a ride to the venue and contribute to their fuel costs.

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Consider driving -

If it's not too far, consider driving to the wedding. This will save on the cost of transportation, accommodation, and alcoholic drinks at the reception.

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Hire transportation -

On the other hand, consider hiring transportation if you're part of a larger group to take you to and from the wedding venue.

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Share or book in groups -

For those wanting to stay in a private rental, consider sharing with other people to split the costs.

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Gift cards -

Items on the gift registry may be out of your budget. By opting for a gift card, you can choose an amount you can afford.

Sources: (Refinery29) (Bankrate) (VoucherCodes)

See also: How to plan a dreamy destination wedding on a budget

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