According to the broken jewelry theory, our necklaces, bracelets, and earrings are much more than just material possessions—they are symbols of something much more valuable, and when they break it can be very significant.
What exactly it means when your jewelry breaks is a question that the theory leaves open to interpretation. However, there are some favorite interpretations that seem to come up time and again.
Curious? Check out this gallery to find out more.
The broken jewelry theory is a relationship theory that originated on, and was spread by, social media platforms, such as Instagram and TikTok.
Let's take a brief look at the origins of the broken jewelry theory. As with so many other relationship theories, it started on social media.
It gained momentum quickly, because in recent years elements such as gold, gemstones, and crystals have taken on more of a spiritual significance.
Ultimately, the significance of a broken piece of jewelry lies in the owner’s individual interpretation. It could either be a coincidence, or a sign from the universe that something in our life has been broken or transformed.
Of course, sometimes a broken necklace is just a broken necklace. But other times, it can seem to be so much more than that.
In a nutshell, the theory suggests that when a piece of jewelry breaks, it means the universe is trying to tell us something about one of our relationships.
The broken jewelry theory hinges on the idea that items of jewelry are not merely physical possessions—they carry emotional and sentimental value, too.
Of course, people have believed in the healing properties of precious stones and materials for centuries.
Many people believe, for example, that stones such as amethyst and quartz are energy shields that absorb negativity and offer protection.
Social media platforms have brought these discussions and beliefs to the forefront. The result is that more and more people believe broken jewelry has a spiritual significance.
Indeed, a ring can represent a strong romantic bond; a bracelet, a lifelong, nurturing friendship.
Finally, if you notice a problem with a piece of jewelry you bought for yourself, this could represent a shift in your personal life.
For example, if an old bracelet keeps falling off, this could indicate that you are outgrowing an old version of yourself.
When an item of jewelry breaks, it can amplify our feelings about the person who gave it to us.
If you are constantly forgetting or losing a piece of jewelry given to you by a family member or friend, this could suggest the relationship is not being properly nurtured.
It is the personal connection that gives jewelry meaning; the personal connection means that broken jewelry is a broken symbol as well as a broken object.
A recurring problem with the same piece of jewelry might indicate that there is an unresolved issue in your relationship with that person.
The main tenet of the broken jewelry theory is that items of jewelry are much more than just accessories.
If jewelry from a former partner breaks, this could be a signal that you have moved on from the relationship.
Equally, it could be a nudge from the universe telling you to let go of any lingering feelings you may have for that ex.
If a piece of jewelry from a current partner breaks, for example, this could signal that there is some sort of conflict between the two of you.
While the meaning is very much up to the individual to decide, there are some favorite interpretations that come up time and again.
Equally, an item of jewelry that goes missing could signal a level of emotional distance between you two.
For example, if you break or lose a necklace from a friend with whom you lost contact, this can amplify feelings of sadness and/or anxiety.
However, a broken piece of jewelry can also help us understand more about our relationships and what they mean to us.
For instance, if you rush to repair the bracelet your sister gave you, this may indicate a desire to mend your relationship with her or to hold on more tightly to important memories.
If, on the other hand, you choose to neglect the broken bracelet, this could indicate a reluctance to deal with emotional issues.
In general, it is important that you give yourself space to reflect on what your broken jewelry means to you as an individual.
Whether you consider it a random accident or a symbolic message, it is always a chance to reflect on your relationships.
Sources: (Verywell Mind)
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According to the broken jewelry theory, our necklaces, bracelets, and earrings are much more than just material possessions—they are symbols of something much more valuable, and when they break it can be very significant.
What exactly it means when your jewelry breaks is a question that the theory leaves open to interpretation. However, there are some favorite interpretations that seem to come up time and again.
Curious? Check out this gallery to find out more.